Managing bedtime with more than one child can feel like a juggling act — especially when they’re different ages or in different routines. But with a little planning, the evenings can become calmer (and even enjoyable!).
Whether your children share a room or have their own, this blog will help you create a bedtime routine that works for everyone — including you.
💤 Same Bedtime? Great! Keep It Simple.
If all your children go to bed at the same time, lean into a shared routine.
Try something like:
🍽️ Dinner → 🛁 Bath → 🪥 Teeth → 📖 Book → 🛏️ Bed
Doing it all together not only saves time, but can also help wind everyone down at once — especially helpful if they’re sharing a bedroom.
🕰️ Different Bedtimes? That Works Too.
If your children have different bedtimes, that’s okay too. The key is keeping their routines consistent.
Use the same order of steps for each child so they know what to expect. This also gives you the chance for one-on-one connection with each child during their wind-down time, which can be especially comforting in busy households.
📋 Why Consistency Is Key
Children thrive on routine. When bedtime follows the same rhythm each night, it builds a sense of security and predictability — making it easier for them to settle and easier for you to manage the evening.
It can be tempting to give in to those last-minute requests: “One more book!”, “I want to sleep with you tonight!”, or “Just 5 more minutes!” But clear boundaries and loving consistency go a long way.
Some nights will go smoothly, and others might feel like trying to put your drunk best friend to bed. Either way — stay consistent. You’ve got this!
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If bedtime feels like a battle night after night, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to keep struggling.
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